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Thursday, September 18, 2014

we've turned DIET into the unhealthiest four-letter word

DIET the unhealthiest four-letter word


That’s right we has a society have turn the word DIET from a

noun the kinds of food that a person, animal, or community habitually eats.

 to only a

verb restrict oneself to small amounts or special kinds of food in order to lose weight.

We have trained our brains to think eating healthy food means you are on a diet, well the verb “diet” means something restrictive and to go without. So, no wonder so many individuals are overweight, we don’t like to be told that we “can and can’t have” so the cycle begins we rebel and get overweight, sluggish and lack energy. So we find the newest fad out there that guarantees to lose the weight in 3,5 or 30 days we buy the book, we start the “diet” but wait…it’s a party and the negativity starts “IT’S NOT FAIR” I can’t have that cake it’s not on my Diet. It’s the holidays, I want to eat everything my family eats and so forth. Or the best one yet and this will be my focus “I don’t want my children seeing that I eat differently than them or know I’m dieting” My #1 Favorite excuse, yes this is a HUGE parental excuse we use every day to get out of choosing the foods that will make us healthy.

So with all that said, I’ll explain why that excuse is actually the unhealthiest excuse for 3 reasons from personal experience.

1.    1. You control the food in your home if you don’t you should be, I don’t care if you live off of $50 a week or $1,000 budget your home your choices. That means no the fastest a cheapest thing to buy is a happy meal, I don’t think so and forget about salads they cost a fortune out. So think about your grocery list, think about your eating out and remember YOU control all of that, talk with your spouse if you both do it and get on the same page. Don’t use the word DIET as a verb start using is as a noun.

2.   2.  You are blaming your children for why you are unhealthy and choosing unhealthy foods to eat…think about that one. That is a lot to carry as a child and a HUGE red flag for their future you just ingrained that eating unhealthy is OK because you have children or a bad day and well it’s just what they eat so you eat it too. You teach them the word Diet!  they don’t know what it is except that food pyramid in school, or a commercial. So turn your words and attitude toward food into a positive.  

3.    3. Guess what IF you are sitting down to eat with them (unless you are serving them veggies) and you get ice cream they DO NOT see you eating something different. They see you eating WITH them Period! They want TIME not focused on Food. So I urge and encourage you to give them time not excuses.
They don't see anything but PICNIC with mommy! Don't make it out to be anything else. 

Food for Thought
1.    You can eat healthy as a family
2.    You can serve them foods different, if they have rice, pasta, rice or anything that doesn’t fit in your plan pass and give them the option too, but your plan becomes a life style and hence will look like what they eat too.
3.    You don’t have to skip the cake (unless you have allergies) of course & enjoy life’s celebrations, but don’t celebrate for a week.
4.    You are worth the time to get healthy and again they don’t see it as a DIET they see you eating food, real food that you have at home.
5.    They see a happy Healthy, energetic mommy, that is the legacy you want to give them. It’s about building a healthy foundation about life, food, family time and my favorite… fitness *enjoy it and show them you enjoy being fit to run, ride and play with them.
Healthy generations start with you and your home so I pray if you do not have healthy foundations for you and your family please ask me for more information. It has taken me years to encourage my children and husband to know the difference between hunger, boredom and cravings. It’s a daily job but its worth it and I’m worth feeling my best to take care of the most important things in my life…my family.


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