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Tuesday, November 12, 2013

The Power of Your Words

“Set a guard, O Lord, over my mouth; keep watch over the door of my lips.” (Psalm 141:3)

Have you very been hurt by someone's words? have you ever hurt someone with your words? 

I know the answer for me is yes & yes. it is in our human nature to use our mouth and tongue for powerful & hurtful words and then there times when we turn and something completely beautiful comes out.

My desire for my words and mouth is to use them for the glory of God and through my words people will see His love, encouragement and ultimately His salvation. In James 3:8 it says, But no human being can tame the tongue. It is a restless evil, full of deadly poison. The only way possible to have control over this is to ask God to completely live in and through you and with that we will speak words of love. This is not a magic pill, it does not turn us from our human ways, but it makes us stop and think before we speak the words of hurt, pain and judgement.

I am trying to change the way in which I speak to others in person, in emails and on-line. With technology the chance for miscommunication is elevated and we must watch the way in which we respond to others, one word or symbol out of context and you spend the rest of the day/week trying to mend what you didn't mean. The issue is; we bring these conversations from our "online world" to our real life and we forget that we are human beings full of errors and flaws and human nature. We do not know how to communicate beyond one word or smiling face and our children are failing in making true friendships and building true relationships.

Things that have come across my comments lately have had hurtful intentions from my point of view but on the flip side the words typed or spoken are actually the hurt or guilt the other one is feeling about themselves. It's not always about you or me for that matter, yes you might get the reflection of the hurt, but I'm praying you take a step back and realize the words we all speak most of the time are us saying how we feel and think about ourselves.

So when I'm judged for things like "well you can do that "stuff" because you are just a stay at home mom" in reality they are saying I wish I was a stay at home mom. (has nothing to do with me)

"You need to stop doing what you think is important and talk more about Jesus, He doesn't care about exercise and health" (feeling like they should be more of a witness or be more healthy taking care of their temple)

"you have no idea how exhausted I feel, I have no one to help me but you are naturally motivated to clean your house, workout, cook etc" ( I wish I could be motivated or have a support system)

Lastly my ultimate favorite comment and one that still gets my blood boiling (working on this one still) "well your husband has a good job so you get to do whatever you want and have money to go places and can spend the time baking cupcakes, dinner, mopping your floors etc"  you name it I've been accused of it. This one is a reflection of regret for so many things, I might only have a minor in physiology, but I know these comments are reflections of anger, guilt and most of all one big excuse for making excuses.

I'm sharing my thoughts because I know I have said unkind and hurtful things to others and I in return have heard many targeted to me. I'm asking you to guard your tongue and to reflect on the words you are saying and going to say, ask yourself are these your inward feelings of yourself coming out, are these regrets and judgment you have about yourself? 

Hurtful words last a lifetime and ruin many friendships. I want to encourage you this week to focus on changing the way you speak and comment to others as you watch your life and sphere of influence be stronger and healthier.

Enjoy your week!
Joyforfitness

 

Friday, November 1, 2013

Recipes from the kitchen of JoyforFitness



7 Healthy Family Meals – perfect for dinner and leftover lunches to keep you on track of your fitness and health goals.  

Chili – servings 4-6
1 lbs ground beef – or ground chicken (or 1 can of black beans)
½ onion
½ green pepper
3 garlic cloves
12 oz tomato puree – diced (I’m not a tomato fan)
2 cans kidney beans un-drained
1 tsp oregano
1 tbsp. Chili power
Salt to taste 

Add spice (hot sauce, cayenne pepper) optional
Brown beef/ ground chicken with onion, pepper and garlic – add spices and tomatoes and beans bring to a boil and simmer on low for 25 minutes  (if you choose to omit beef/chicken follow the steps but add the beans all at one time after cooking the onions and peppers)
Enjoy alone or add a fresh salad

Lentil Soup (bikini boot camp) serves 4 (double to freeze)
2 zucchini diced
2 carrots diced
½ onion diced
1 cup dried lentils
Salt and pepper 

Place vegetables and lentils in a stock pot and cover with 5 cups of water –(you can use ½ water and ½ vegetable or chicken broth)
Bring to a boil then simmer for 1 hr. if it becomes too thick add more water
Season to taste and if you choose to blend for a smoother consistency place in blender for a few second then put back in the pot.

Chicken / Chick Pea Yellow Curry (brown jasmine rice) serves 4-6
3-4 Chicken breast (cut chicken into thin strips) (optional – if you omit chicken add 2 cans of chick peas)
1 can chick peas drained
2 potatoes cut into pieces
4 carrots cut into pieces
1 small onion julienne cut
4 oz. tomato paste
3 tbsp. yellow curry power
2 cans coconut milk
1 tsp (cayenne pepper) if you want some spice
Salt and pepper to taste 

In a large skillet add 2 tsp grapeseed oil brown the chicken with salt and pepper – add onions for 2-3 minutes add tomato paste, carrots, potatoes, curry, stir add coconut milk stir cover and simmer for 35 minutes or until veggies are soft then add chick peas and stir cover for 5 more minutes.
This serves my family of 5 with leftovers to take to work
Serve with Brown Jasmine rice or whole grain Couscous

Enchiladas serves 4-6
3-4 Chicken breast
8 oz. Mexican blend cheese
24 oz. Enchilada sauce – No preservatives (read labels) *new recipe for sauce on last page
1 can Black beans
12 whole wheat tortillas
Optional toppings – avocado, sour cream, romaine lettuce or spinach, tomatoes
Season with salt a large pot of water and bring to a simmer, add chicken and cover and simmer 8-10 minutes set aside to cool for a minute or 2 and shred with 2 forks place in skillet with sauce and black beans mix and cook on med low for 5 minutes – assemble on whole wheat tortillas with cheese and roll – add sauce and cheese over the top and place in oven until heated and cheese on top in melted. 

Mahi w/ red rice and veggies (rice serves 6)
1 Mahi fillet per person (cut into chunks)
2 tsp grapeseed oil
Sauté Veggies (carrots, cauliflower, broccoli, strong beans etc. anything you have on hand)
Red Rice (clean eating Magazine)
1 ¾ cups of chicken broth low sodium (read labels)
 2/3 jar/can/fresh chopped tomatoes
½ white onion cut into 4-6 chunks
½ tsp. Sea salt
1 cup long grain brown rice rinsed
1 small carrot peeled and diced
¼ cup frozen or fresh peas 

Start with sauteing veggies (as they cook prepare the rice) use the same pan to sear the Mahi 10 minutes until rice is done.  THEN
In Blender combine broth, tomatoes, onion, garlic and salt – puree
Transfer mixture to a medium sauce pan, add rice and bring to a boil, reduce to a simmer and cover to 40 minutes.
Salt and pepper Mahi fillets and pan sear 3-4 min on each side or until cooked to your liking.

Chicken Sweet potato Hash (clean eating magazine) serves 4
3-4 chicken breasts
2 tsp. Grapeseed oil
1 ¼ lbs sweet potatoes (approx 4) peeled and diced
1 cup thinly sliced red onion
1/2 tsp. smoke paprika, plus additional for garnish
½ tsp. ground Cumin
¼ tsp. sea salt
¼ up finely chopped cilantro
***Optional 4 eggs poached for top
Season with salt a large pot of water and bring to a simmer, add chicken and cover and simmer 8-10 minutes set aside and shred with 2 forks. Next in a large non stick skillet heat oil on med, add potatoes and onion sauté until potato are tender 15 minutes. Gently fold shredded chicken into potato mixtures until mixture is browned5-10 minutes stir in paprika, cumin, salt and cilantro. Top with poached egg. Or serve with Quinoa

Teriyaki Stir Fry (chicken optional) (clean eating Magazine w/ my alterations) serves 6
1 tbsp grapeseed oil
1 lbs chicken breast (optional) cut into 1 ½ in pieces
1 tsp sesame oil
1 red bell pepper seeded and chopped
4 cups broccoli florets
1 cup shredded carrots
2 scallions thinly sliced
*Optional Chili pepper thinly sliced 

Teriyaki sauce – if you choose to make your own its worth it if not Read you labels no MSG or preservatives ( I found Veri Veri brand in BJ's)
½ c. unsweetened pineapple juice
½ c. reduced sodium chicken broth
¼ c. mirin rice cooking wine (eden foods) if not look for Rice Wine
3 tbsp. reduced sodium soy sauce
2 tbsp. raw honey
2 tbsp. tapioca starch
1 tbsp. minded fresh ginger
2 minced garlic cloves 

Add all ingredients and whisk until honey is dissolved (set aside)
In a large skillet on high heat add 1 tsp. oil to coat pan. Add chicken and sesame oil stir fry until brown  3 minutes transfer to bowl
Keep skillet on high and add 1 tsp. oil add bell pepper, broccoli stir fry 1 minute. Return everything to skillet including and juice and add teriyaki sauce bring to a boil and reduce heat until chicken is cooked, vegetables are tenders and sauce has thickened slightly sprinkle with scallions and chili if using.
Serve with brown rice noodles or brown Jasmine rice. 

Curry Dressing (makes 1 cup) (bikini Bootcamp)
Use as dressing or marinade
3 tablespoons low-sodium soy sauce
1 tablespoon balsamic vinegar
½ c. extra virgin olive oil
1 teaspoon curry power
2 tablespoons honey
Combine in blender – add 1 tablespoon water blend till smooth or place in jar and shake 

Ginger – Sesame (makes 1 cup) (bikini Bootcamp)
Use as dressing or marinade
½ c. extra virgin olive oil
½ c. balsamic vinegar
2 tablespoons low-sodium soy sauce
2 cloves garlic – chopped
2 tablespoons honey or brown sugar
2 tablespoons peeled and minced garlic
1 teaspoon toasted sesame oil
Combine all in blender – add 2 tablespoons water and blend till smooth 

Ingredients for the Enchilada Sauce *I have not tried this one yet lifeofthefarmerswife.com
  • 29 oz. Can of Tomato Sauce (can use canned tomatoes or crushed tomatoes as well)
  • 5 Tablespoons of 100% Extra Virgin Olive Oil
  • 3 Cloves of Crushed Garlic
  • 1/2 Cup of Fresh Cilantro (No stems)
  • 1/2 of a Sweet Yellow Onion
  • 1/2 of a Red Bell Pepper (not pictured above)
  • 1/2 Can of Rotel (with the juice)
  • 1/2 Teaspoon of Ground Pepper
  • 1/2 Teaspoon of each Mrs. Dash’s “Table Blend”, ”Southwest Chipotle”, ”Chili Lime” (can be replaced with other similar seasonings)
  • 100% Whole Wheat Flour (optional to add when simmering sauce if it needs to be thickened)
In a blender, combine all ingredients of the sauce and blend them. Once it is blended smooth, pour the sauce in a pan and cook it on low and let it simmer for about 15 minutes. This can be made ahead of time and refrigerated for 2 meals. 


Budget Tip: Look for Chicken, fish or beef that is on sale and freeze in family portion size, buy vegetables that are in season and local, use this menu for 2 weeks it will save you money on the “extra” ingredients and will take the temptation of eating out and the questions of “what’s for dinner” away.  Leftovers for lunch save time, money and health. Enjoy! 


Health Tip: Food is still food clean, organic, fresh, homemade – if portion size is hard to control head to the store and buy smaller dinner plates, it’s about portion control and save seconds for lunch tomorrow. Swap all drinks for water or unsweetened iced tea. 

These Recipes are from the Kitchen of JoyforFitness 2013
 (I create and use several ideas and recipes from books, meal programs and magazines, some are original and I’ve given credit to those that I’ve found from other sources.) 

If you have any suggestions or revisions to these above please send them my way. Bracerojoy@hotmail.com or @joyforfitness on Facebook




Tuesday, October 29, 2013

What's your Motivation?

Hello, thank you for stopping by today. I hope you find something to make you laugh, be inspired and take action today. 

There is a huge phrase out right now "what's your excuse?" well I'm sure no matter where you live, work or play you've heard just as many excuses as I have. I'm going to just spend a moment in my area of focus; health, wellness, stay at home mom and fitness. 

I'm starting my day like most everyday coffee, devotions, blogging all in my pj's. Yes to some this is a "comfortable" life I live, but once that door opens to my children's bedrooms it's a non-stop busy day. In which I could stop and make 1,000 excuses as to why I can't workout, cook healthy or even get dressed by the time my husband comes home from his 10 hour work day. BUT I don't. 

I fill every day with: love,laughter,homeschooling,children's activities, exercise, house-hold chores, occasional crying, cooking, and my own hobby fitness coaching.

I see my children and my husband as my inspiration and motivation to be everything I possibly can. I choose to stay home and teach my children because I love learning and I want them to love learning in their own areas. I want to see their faces light up when they read a book. I want to yes, cook them 3 meals a day plus as may snacks as they ask for; that alone is a full time job. (Some say "well IF I stayed home I could cook healthy too") I have many working friends that go above and beyond healthy cooking for their families and I applaud them. So stop the "stay at home excuse" 

I also get the I'm too busy to workout - another phrase I do love is "stop the glorification of busy" we choose to be busy; no one is demanding we sign our children or ourselves up for everything under the sun. I think we feel we will be left out if we stay home at night, or even one night a week. Ask your family, I'm sure they'd choose a night home over always on the go. Give yourself a break to breath and a moment to care for you…relax. 

Another excuse I get quit often is "well it's not in the budget" if you live in the same world as me our budgets are what we make of them. We have the right to choose what we use our money for: food, entertainment, travel, clothes etc. We have that right, if we are working hard for our paychecks each and every week that is our right to choose where we spend our money, but please don't say "I'd love to BUT! It’s not in my budget." Just say it's not a priority to me to eat better (it’s cheaper to cook and eat at home) exercise (running in your neighborhood is FREE) planning family fun nights (the beach, local park, mountains, your backyard it’s all FREE) 

Start looking at your family as motivation and inspiration to be a better you. Choose to start making changes that focus on healthier options, healthier activities, and start using healthier quotes. Forget the excuses because just like everything else in life you begin the actually believe they are real. GET OVER THEM and move forward! 

Life is worth living now - go enjoy your family and the freedoms we have.  

Joy 
Joyforfitness.com




 MY FAMILY MY INSPIRATION 

Tuesday, October 15, 2013

My Irish Temper is escaping me,,,

Wow - Breath in Breath out....Relax is what is going through my mind.

I have to sit and journal a few minutes because if I comment or post it will be will come off as a negative comment and that is not my intent. I have Irish Blood which comes with an Irish temper that has had me spend many years in prayer to control my outburst and comments. So today I'm taking a step back before I do anything because that Irish Blood is a Boiling!

My issue is why can people comment on how thin, skinny, muscular someone is but we cannot say those same things about how heavy, overweight, disease filled people are?  why do we have to "watch" what we say in order not to hurt the feelings of a "certain" body type but it is done ALL day long every day to those that work hard, eat well, breath clean air while exercising and are not flaunting their bodies but sharing that the work involved is worth sharing with others. It is way more than outward appearance people. It is taking pride in the body God gave me. It is doing something every day that challenges the muscles HE created running with the Legs He gave me with the heart and lungs that make it happen.

I was recently called out on posting a picture of me in a bathing suit- I'm a Florida girl and I didn't mean to attract the attention and comments it did (mostly behind my back) but it did and I in no way would ever post myself in a way the I thought defiled my Temple. I'm sorry it it came across as that and for future post I will be clear of my intent. I wanted to inspire others to reach their health and fitness goals not show-off "look what I've done" that's not me. I know we are all created special and unique. Just be your best don't settle for what the world says is OK.  What's the intent of your heart? Because God' wants you to be happy and whole from the inside out.

Food can be an addiction much like drugs, alcohol & working to much, why do we glance over the fact that anything that is put before God is an idol and defiles (our body) God's Temple Including our words.

I understand some people struggle, I get it!!! But both side struggle. Some men and women would love to gain more weight or be free from unhealthy habits. Likewise I know overweight people that try and do great things for themselves and overcome battles every day. When will we stop hurting with words and actions? Take a step back a re-evaluate your own words and actions and how you would want someone to approach.

Our Bodies are meant to be Well-Water with Jesus Christ - don't let words and actions cause you to Wilt.

Joy for Fitness